
March 24, 2015
february/march playlist.

March 22, 2015
project life 2015 // week eleven.





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March 21, 2015
project life 2015 // week ten.





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March 20, 2015
s'mores bars.
// 1 C graham cracker crumbs
// 1/4 tsp. baking soda
// 1/4 tsp. salt
// 1/2 C unsalted butter
// 1/2 C packed light brown sugar
// 1/4 C granulated sugar
// 1 large egg
// 1 tsp. vanilla extract
// 2 XL Hershey bars
// 1 (7oz) jar marshmallow fluff

2// Combine butter and sugars together in a bowl, and once mixed add in the egg and vanilla.
3// Add in the dry ingredients, and mix until completely combined.
4// Line a square pan with parchment paper, and layer half of the dough on the bottom of the pan.
5// Spread an even layer of marshmallow fluff across the first layer of crust, followed by the two hershey bars.
6// Layer the rest of the crust dough on top of the chocolate, doing your best to seal in all of the marshmallow underneath (it will expand when hot, which caused some cracks in the thin parts of the crust for me).
7// Bake for 30-35 minutes on 350*F, or until crust edges brown.
8// Let cool completely (seriously, all the way) before cutting into bars.
March 19, 2015
animal bookends.

March 18, 2015
project life 2015 // week nine.





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March 17, 2015
happy half birthday, skylar fallyn.


You're six months old today, and all of the cliches apply: I can't believe how fast time has gone, you're getting so big, you make me proud every day, you're such a smart little girl, you are the most beautiful girl in the world, etc. The only one thing that surprises me, though it may seem hard to understand, is how much I love you.
When your mommy told me she was pregnant with you last January on our trip to California, I was so overjoyed that her and daddy were getting another shot at having a baby, because they had already been through so much before and after having Max. I was so excited initially, and though I never stopped being excited, as your due date approached I started to get anxious, and to feel apprehensive. I spent almost two years being your big brother's nanny, giving him so much love every day, that I just didn't know how I could make room in my heart for you, too. I didn't want to lose what me and Max had as a duo.
The day you were born though, your mom sent me a picture as soon as she could, and my heart exploded and swelled. I realized in that moment that I didn't need to make room in my heart for you, my heart just grew one hundred times its size in an instant, and I was so in love with you that it hurt, and still does.
Three weeks into your life, I disappeared for three months; three crucial months. By the time we saw each other, you were holding up your own head, laughing, just about rolling over, and seeing me from further and further away and smiling every time we locked eyes. In the last two months since I've been back with you and your brother, I have loved you both so hard that it physically pains me to think about, but in the best way that you couldn't possibly even understand yet. It's the best kind of love.
Sky, no matter how little I may be around in the future, no matter how many days pass without getting to see my face, no matter how many little moments I may miss, you have to know that the love I feel for you will never fade, it will never go away. It will only get stronger and more insane as time goes on. Being a part of your life is one of the greatest gifts I have ever received.
I love you babygirl, happy half birthday.
Love, your Alessia.
March 16, 2015
baked zucchini chips.
// 2 large eggs
// 1 C panko breadcrumbs
// 1/2 C flour
// 1/2 C grated parmesan

2// Slice the zucchini thin, then dip into flour.
3// Dunk the slices in egg, then into the breadcrumbs, pressing the crumbs into the zucchini (on my first few slices the breadcrumbs fell right off, so I made sure to really pack them on for the rest).
4// Bake on 400* for five minutes on each side, or until the crumbs start to brown a bit.
March 15, 2015
project life 2015 // week eight.





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March 14, 2015
project life 2015 // week seven.





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March 13, 2015
friday link love | 12.

To be honest, this article is one of the most amazing things I've ever read.
Stock images needed this boost.
Quite possibly one of the funniest kid videos I've ever seen.
A twitter status that spits truth whether you believe Snape was a hero or not...
This vine basically sums up winter in New York.
One of my favorite scenes of Gavin & Stacey has been my go-to for laughs lately.
Cards Against Humanity can be played anywhere you are now with this web page, and it is the best news I've heard all year.
Kind of need this shirt.
Grace Helbig killllllls me.
March 8, 2015
26 things in my 26th year.

1// MOVE. OUT. (May 1, 2015).
2// Get a new, permanent, salaried job. (Hey, Popsugar. March 16, 2015).
3// Take a road trip. (October 2015)
4// Reopen my Etsy shop. (February 2016)
5// Learn to make five staple dishes from scratch well enough to make them without needing a recipe.
6// Spend less money on things and more on experiences.
7// Get a new tattoo (March 8, 2015).
8// Send a handwritten note once a month (taken from last year, it was my favorite item on the list). [|||| |||]
9// Downsize my closet when I move out so that I stop having the issue of a full closet with nothing to wear. This. Needs. To. Happen. (May 2015).
10// Buy flowers once a month because man, do they bring on good moods. [|||| ||||]
11// Go to at least four concerts (again) [||||].
12// Knit something.
13// Go to California. I know I keep putting so much emphasis on Cali, but I need the golden state back in my life asap. (April 2015)
14// Take more photos of my every day life.
15// Travel to a new place. (Portland, ME!)
16// Take a class to improve some of my hobby skills (such as HTML, DSLR photography, photoshop, or calligraphy).
17// Get together with all four of my college housemates at once. (June 2015).
18// Organize my photos on iPhoto. So much garbage (phone screenshots and twenty of the same photo) is clogging it up.
19// Take a photo with my polaroid camera at least once a month.
20// Watch the entire series of Breaking Bad, because if one more person tells me what I'm missing... (March 23 - April 3. Oh man, so good).
21// Make something that contains all of the photos of my time with Max and Skylar over the last two years. (April 2015).
22// Try brewing beer.
23// Do something that scares me. (Interviewing this girl crush of mine was frightening, but I'm so glad that I did it.)
24// Get back into watching more YouTube videos and reading blogs on an almost daily basis.
25// Come up with a new feature for the blog that makes me happy and gets my creative juices flowing.
26// Write myself another letter to open on my birthday next year.
Roll on, 25.
Roll on, 25.
March 7, 2015
goodbye, 24.

1// I spent thirty days on my favorite blog project so far, which was literally just finding fun ways to take pictures of coffee.
2// I discovered the beauty of the shutter remote, and am forever changed.
3// My grandmother passed away in December, and in the chaos that was losing a loved one over Christmas, my entire family got to spend an amazing three days together celebrating her life, and thinking about all of ours in conjunction with each other going forward.
4// Finally finished my first year of project life completely, which made starting my new one really exciting.
5// I spent most of my 25th year focusing on the word grow, and have chosen to expand on that this year with the word adapt (see more about One Little Word here).
6// I met two of my blogging idols, Elsie + Emma of A Beautiful Mess.
7// I discovered my new favorite thing ever is using gold paint markers on white canvases (exhibit a & exhibit b).
8// I made a bunch of new friends, but two new besties that I clicked with so fast, we couldn't have planned it to be a more perfect match.
9// Finally got a new radio for my car. While this may seem like the silliest little highlight of this year, it has made life so much easier (no more mix CDs for me! Hello, the future).
10// I tried ten new restaurants around Long Island (and a few in NYC), plus a few breweries nearby, which has expanded the list of things to do at home a bit (it's usually a very short list, indeed).
11// My long-time Halloween costume idea finally came to fruition this year, and I want to be the same thing every year for the rest of my life.
12// Ate a Donut Plant pistachio doughnut, and my life is so much better as a result.
13// Rang in the new year like this.
14// Went on the most amazing trip of my life through Europe with two of my best friends.
15// I discovered my favorite nail color (and honestly my favorite color, period).
16// This was the year that I finally figured out what I want to do with my life. This. Writing. Telling Stories. Connecting with people through the written word. I want all of it, and though I wish I figured out all of this sooner (say, senior year of high school when I had to pick a major), I am embracing the crazy now and making a real go of it.
17// I got my fifth tattoo in six years, and have kept with the tradition of never getting more than one in the same age year.
18// Got to spend a weekend in Montauk with my friends right at the end of the summer, which was probably the best summer send-off of my life.
19// I went to a vineyard for the first time, and seeing as wine is my first true love, it was a solid, though messy experience.
20// Flew to England for ten days to finally spend some time with my best friend. I seem to love having the people I love be in another country.
21// I read I'll Give You The Sun, and it made me feel all of the feelings. It is the type of book that I would love to be able to write one day, and reading it has made me more excited about that. (Notable mention for book of the year goes to Still Alice, which was also absolutely incredible).
23// After a brief hiatus at BuzzFeed, Max is still in my daily life, which I could not be happier about.
24// Skylar Fallyn was born around my half birthday, and even though I was nervous before she arrived that I wouldn't be able to fit enough love in me for both Max and her, she's stretched my heart to triple its size. Couldn't be more in love with her.
25// Though only about half of the things on my 25 Things list got completed or started, having the list on my mind all year really helped me to think about goal setting in the future and what types of goals are important to me as I grow and change. It was a good experiment, and I'm going to continue it and try to make more attainable goals, as well as goals that I really want to see myself work toward in the upcoming year.
Saying goodbye to the first quarter century of my life, and hoping this next year will be full of more of these little moments.
*EDIT: here they are.
March 6, 2015
five on friday: mascaras.


